My daughter married my high school love — at their wedding...

“I’m worried,” I’d say.

 

“You’re controlling,” she’d say.

 

“The age gap plus the history—”

 

“Is your issue,” she’d cut in. “Not mine.”

 

About a year later, she showed up at my house, eyes bright, hand shaking.

 

“You’d cut me out?”

 

She held it out. Big diamond.

 

“Mom, I love Mark,” she said. “He proposed. We’re getting married in three months. Accept it, or we cut all ties.”