However, complications often arise afterwards:
Delayed grief reactions when the last image becomes difficult to process.
Intrusive memories related to the feeling or appearance of the body.
Feelings of guilt or doubt about whether the act was appropriate.
Greater difficulty accepting the finality of death.
In rare cases, focusing on the body can become a mechanism that slows down emotional experience and prolongs acute grief. This does not mean that there is anything “wrong” with the bereaved person – it is simply that the mind and heart are responding to the shock in their own way.
Physical and health risks
Despite strict hygiene protocols at funeral homes and hospitals, the body begins biological changes immediately after death. Kissing or prolonged contact carries slight health risks, especially if:
The deceased died of a contagious disease.
There are open wounds, medical devices, or bodily fluids.
The bereaved person has a weakened immune system.
The risks are low but real and often overlooked in emotional moments. Medical professionals recommend avoiding direct contact with the mouth or face, especially if the cause of death is unclear.
